Spring Cleaning

[Coconut]

I was addicted to video games twice in my life... the first time was mid 80's (around 12yo), Super Mario Bros had just come out and me and all my friends were obsessed with it. We played it a lot, as well as some other games, for about 6 mos to a year then started finding our way back to our bikes and the basketball court. Pretty normal video game addiction.

The second time was about 4 or 5 years into my M. It provided me a fantasy escape from my life, I played pretty regularly until BD. I haven't really played since, I mean a few times but I now take responsibility for my life and don't find the fantasy appealing anymore. Not normal for an adult man to have a video game addiction, it is an escape.

With that said, I am glad you decided to stay with POF guy. I previously commented that it isn't helpful to stick around someone you aren't into.. But I think I may be changing the way I see this.

You obviously aren't stopping him from bettering himself, as he doesn't seem to be concerned with the way he is, and if you want some company and he provides that company, then good on you.

Don't Settle, but if you can find happiness for today, I'm happy for you.