WW, wlc, Waw or What?

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Kguy, thanks for your comments.

Tbh, I don't have any concerns regarding the custody schedule.

First of all, she doesn't want the kids more than 50/50. That would probably damage her relationship with OM. If he wanted to play house, I'm sure they would have started by now. To my best knowledge, he hasn't spent a single night at her place while the kids were there. Now 14 months into their "relationship". So more kids time = less OM time.

Secondly, if she were to have the kids more, she'd probably have to get a new job as she is required to work a certain number of evenings which wouldn't be possible with small kids. And I honestly think she loves her job more than she loves her kids.

And third, but certainly not least, I'd probably be given primary custody if it ever came to a fight. I have always been the primary parent (due to her evenings and weekend shifts) and since I haven't done anything to damage the co-parenting arrangement, and also I have some other things that would put her in a bad light in case of a custody fight, I hold all the aces.

I only posted the above to display the provocative (or more likely, severely confused) state she appears to be in. Regarding the dentist issue, actually D4 has been called in for the annual check - in my week - and she didn't change that one. In fact, when she was here to pickup up the kids last monday she mentioned to me that D4 has been called in for the check and if I was able to go... In my country, both parents receive a mail and a text with the date. How she does not know that I also receive that info, I cannot grasp (as mentioned, she appears confused at times). So no, she is not trying to put me in a bad light.

She even sent me a reminder with the date and time yesterday and also wrote "see you at D11's parent-teacher meeting xday at x time"... Mind you I havent missed a single event or time yet. So she appears very confused. Maybe she was always like that and I am only able see it now. I have no idea...

RAI, thanks for stopping by.