Good job! She is very curious about your intentions. So many questions!
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I am filling sad. I thought i will forgive everything, but first it should stop.
It is normal to feel sadness. It is too soon to forgive, b/c this is like raw meat. Give yourself time. ((hugs))
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it is strange....in the past (1 year ago) in situation after fight or what ever, i have waited the smallest bite from her to start talk about want to be together and so on ....pursuit like crazy, in general this is not change nothing. The reals change in her attitude was when i start to hold my ground in front of the kids, and not call her, text or what ever pursuit.
When she sees you won't pursue her, she will chase you. She will play games. Hold your ground, b/c if you go back to her, you do not want to experience this again.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!