Don´t know if I should laugh or cry...
W was at her IC and said that she understood there that she should not do something if she is not 100% ready for that. And she cannot promise 100% transparency with phone (everything else was ok), since it would feel I´m controlling her and it would not help build trust naturally. How did you know Sandi?!
Well, I answered that I am not going to attend MC as long as she will not agree to my transparency plan, and then we should just continue to process towards D.
I actually feel annoyed that she needs to push all boundaries, but naturally also fear that giving up MC opportunity might take away the last chance for reconciliation and united family.


M: 39 W:39
S: 13 D:9
T: 15 M:14
ILYBINILWY: 5/2016
Separation: 1/2018
OM confirmed: 2/2018