V, thanks for responding on the "$h1t test" (aka "fitness test") question. It's certainly not something I do, and not something done by men, as far as I can tell. I've been getting feedback that it's not something the majority of women do, so that's good to hear.

Reading the D forum here is good, as I'm getting a lot of female perspective on things (moreso than the Newcomers forum). I'm somewhat cynical about the opposite sex right now, so I'm getting great exposure to the other side of the coin, post-D.

Now my new date to be final is in a week and a half. I hope this one sticks.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.