Former WH, now LBS Please Help, close to Give Up

[betheoa]

Thanks Sandy, i relay waiting to here this. Yes i will be strong.

I am not sure if I understand the translation of your W's message, but I understand that she refuses to end contact with the OM. Until she agrees to no more contact with OM, you should not agree to live with her.

I was asking about her message - what dose mean? She do not ask question, just gilt trip, i sow like this. My translation was very close.
Her writing to me in general, is that I make the decision to live and she will support this decision and respect me for doing that (no longer accept that), and she will never go back to me, or allow me to go back to her.

You should tell her not to contact you unless it is for 3 reasons. #1 is about the kids.
#2 she ends contact with OM. #3 is for business matters.

should i support her financially?

She will test you. She may lie to you. You are to believe nothing, until she stops having other men in her life. You must stay strong. You have nothing to say to her if she contacts OM. Understand?

Yes i have understand. So i am going just to close her message, and leave like this.

Now i am homeless :), with some clothes in the car.
Of course i am in fuzzy staid of mind, but there is a feeling, i have reach something different.

Sandy, i appreciate very much your respond, i gives me strength.