Cadet: It probably is mostly a repeat of this thread, just different dates. I'll just continue with this one. Thanks.
kml: I have been looking for an Al Anon meeting in our area. I might have to do the online route if I can't find one that works with my works schedule. Thanks for the advice. I "hoped" that the alcohol demon was beaten, but, it is back and worse than ever. She tried moderating instead of rehab, and that was short lived. I cannot control or cure her alcoholism, so I need to step away.
Vanilla: Thanks for the advice! I am actively working on stepping away.
This time around, DB will do more to help me work on my issues and help me get through what is certain to be a nasty D. I hate that I have lost my W to alcohol, but I must take steps to save myself and my S17. It is just so hard to let go of that hope that she will get help.
M: 50 W: 47 No kids together M: 10 T: 11 BD #1: 12/14 R #1: 7/15 BD #2: 1/18 D Filed: 6/18/18 D Final: 01/28/19 Currently still in-house