Here is another thing that annoyed the cr#p out of me prior to bomb. Instead of addressing eachother one in one, they would ask me (does daughter have practice tonight?, will dad come home this week-end?, etc..) This was done while in the same room as the other person. Just ask them!! I don' t know? ( i did know but come on now..)
This is still going on.ex-h just texted D15 to know where D17 is. She said sge slept over at a fridnd and thdy will be working on project all day. Lie.
D15 then copy/paste the conversation and sent it to D17 so there story can match.
Why lie?? To keep the peace. D17 and 2 other friends are gone to North Bay to help a friend move back home. Ex-h would have lectured her and harassed her all day as checking up on her. This would go on ALL DAY. Yet, if something was to happened, he would not take actions. It would become: " i told you so. You should have listened go me. Why did you go and do that? "..
I carry so much anger and resentment for this man i loved with all my heart and gave 20 years of my life for. I never thought i could feel this way towards him. Maybe MY FOG has been lifted with this separation. Maybe my marriage was not as perfect as i saw it.
