Snooping doesn't help it's like picking a scab. There is a saying if you snoop you get poop. Meaningless stuff or things you can't explain or deliberate twisty stuff.
Then there is INTEL. That is to know so you can plan for your own future. And once you know then you can never unknow.
There is already one OM. There are strategies you can use, particularly if you know who OM is. Hire a gumshoe, I did that, 25 did that, Pink did a follow, others do chasers, recordings.
Once you know you stop. You have your INTEL.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
