One of the things we implemented was her taking back over the grocery shopping
By saying, "We".......are you referring to the counselor?
I fail to see how this will benefit the MR, if your W cannot control her spending. It is a fast way to add a new problem on top of your current one. Why not go together to buy groceries? It would get her out of the house, and be easier on the wallet.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
