Newbie In Need Of Guidance #2

[rminer]

Really you shouldn’t know about any vacation discussions because you found out about it by rifling through the trash. Would someone who is being more alpha rifle through the trash to find out information about his wife?

I wasn't "rifling through the trash."

As I said, I was using paper from the recycling to start a fire. It was just one of the pieces of paper I grabbed. She knows that this is what paper in the recycling bin is used for in the winter. Has nothing to do with alpha or beta.


She is a Stay At Home Mom. Unless the money is coming from the OM, she is using money that is meant to feed the family for her own pleasure. That bothers me.


I understand what you are saying though.