Yes, keep the expectations very low and be really patient, meanwhile I am feeling content with the things I've been doing these two years. I'm capable in doing anything now, I was too much depend on husband.
Husband is the second child and my father-in-law was abandoned by his own mother when he was only nine. Father-in-law is a quiet and an extremely self-oppressing person, husband and his father never interacted. Husband's brother was the golden child in the eyes of my mother in low...
It is hard to believe all these if I wasn't seen these myself, but I become more strong and am glad that I could give him the love unconditionally; and the time and space that he asked for 3.5 years when he bombed me (laugh)
Thank you for all the information of midlife crisis and depression; without these, I won't survive !
me 44 h 43 no children married 12 years got bombed Sep. 2014 h moved May. 2015 stopped forcing me for divorce Jan. 2016 (never filed)
