That's good.

You stated your boundary and were prepared to enforce it.

That's excellent, you are learning fast.

You may get help from reading Al Turtle on boundaries, it was a big eye opener to me and I got it for the very first time ever!

Duh!

The technique of getting on with your life is called LRT, it's in MWD book. I hope you have DR on your reading list. Seems good to me.

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW