A very sad turn in my H's MLC. Some might think what's happened is poetic justice. Maybe true. But I'm not laughing or cheering.

My H has just been diagnosed with Genital Herpes. He's devastated. I am as well, primarily for him.

He's sworn off all sexual activity for fear he will transfer it to someone else. He doesn't know how to go forward from here - not yet anyway. His girlfriend may also be infected. No way to tell who got it from who. It's a sad result of taking the risk of engaging in an MLC affair. They jump in so quickly and really don't know anything about their new partner.

Even though I let go of him some time ago, I still have love and compassion for him.