This was my first simple 180 and it was real easy. I stopped pursuing and showed her I was not interested in anything she was doing. I never asked her questions about how she was doing, where she had been, how her weekend was, etc. I never made up excuses to contact her and kept it casual when I did.
Either she started to chase me again and her feelings came back or they didn't and nothing changed.
I had nothing to lose.
These were my same thoughts exactly. I have nothing to lose. My H will either like me finding my own life (like he has told me to do so many times), or not. I have nothing to lose.
Neither do you kitcat. Your H has already checked out mentally. You have nothing to lose.
Me-44,H-44 S21,S19,S17,D13 M-22,T-29 (off and on prior to M) BD:12-20-17 (H said he had things to work out in his head) H moved out:3-4-18
