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GAL and 180ing are hard. And I am not sure I am ready for it yet


This was my first simple 180 and it was real easy. I stopped pursuing and showed her I was not interested in anything she was doing. I never asked her questions about how she was doing, where she had been, how her weekend was, etc. I never made up excuses to contact her and kept it casual when I did.

Either she started to chase me again and her feelings came back or they didn't and nothing changed.

I had nothing to lose.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018