Prebomb I would have made comments about "yeah right" or "why are you teasing me?" or "I would have jokingly went along with it." (For reference we had sex twice last year prebomb, the last time being last summer. We did have sex a few weeks ago post bomb.)
Prebomb she would not have made those comments. I can't really pinpoint when she quit ever joking about sex, but it was at least months ago. And even then the comments were more mocking (like using a goofy voice for me saying things like "yeah, i want sex!"). Not flirtatious at all. These are more flirtatious. I think you are right on the money about her trying to get a reaction, testing me to see if my reaction has changed.
I'm not saying that she is or isn't....
She could be...
She also could be saying these things and watching for your reaction..
She could be testing to see if your reaction is different than before..
She could be a progesterone enraged addict right now...
She could be picking up radio free Europe in her braces....
Many reasons on why, if , what ,when, where or how...
Thing is ??
How YOU react to it, or don't react to it...
Are you reacting the same ?
Different ???
How sharp are your words ???
Are you still reacting with passive aggressiveness when you don't get your way ???
Hey...
If you were focused on that ^^^^ you would hardly notice these tests...
The only thing I will add to Another Stander's advice about sexual contact with her...
Unless you are 100% sure that she hasn't been with another person...