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[joejoe1]

Gisela,

I have to disagree. There are more problems than pursuer and distancer. What's the reason behind him distancing himself.

Think back on all the things he says he don't like. Think back on all the faces he makes when he doesn't like when you say or do certain things. What about his body language?

Also you didn't answer my question about his LL. What are your husband LL? You have to know these things. You have to learn your husband and the problems in your M, to help improve them. You have to do a self reflection on yourself and the M, to move forward to heal yourself and the M.

Get a notebook and write these things down to help you arrange your thoughts, then put them in here, the more details you give here the better advise you will get from the vets.

Onward and forward