Kitcat, I have the same fear with GAL and 180ing. However, most of the DBing experts on this forum would point out that if you are worried about your husband's reacation to GAL and 180ing then you are doing it wrong. Those are for YOU, not for him. He can respond positively or negatively to the changes but that is okay. GAL and 180ing are about preparing you mentally and emotionally to move on if necessary. If they result in your husband becoming more interested in working on things then that is a side benefit.

At least from my understanding. GAL and 180ing are hard. And I am not sure I am ready for it yet.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018