Things like this. I'll say "I have a question." She'll say "Oh, you want sex?"
Or last week our bedroom door, that locks, was working right and if you latched it sometimes it wouldn't open. So I said "We are going to have to not latch our door until I can fix it." And she said: "Oh, that means we can't have sex until its fixed!"
A few days ago I said something about needing to do something, and she said "Oh is that what you are referring to sex as now?"
There are more, they are wide and varied. I haven't been taking notes since I mostly just blow them off. But averages about 1 a day, some days none but other days multiple.
To me, it seems like she is baiting you with these. Trying to get you to react...
How would you have handled these statements pre-bomb ??
Would she have been irritated with how you handled them pre-bomb ???
Remember when I said that everything is a test ??
I think that the answer lies somewhere around your answers to the above questions and where you are now....
I would say that she is seeing things a little different within you recently.
And she is maybe trying to see that, since the band broke up, you are taking your solo act on the road... : )
Seriously though...
I would say that some of it is a test...
Some of it is her being inquisitive...
Some of it is her actually showing glimpses of herself...
I wouldn't bring too many ants to that picnic though.
Steve focuses on Steve....
And IF she decides to come around, you won't have to guess or look for any signs
