I did great and did not text H after he left the house at 5pm. I did not call!!!
I didn't hear from him at all. I knew he was going to his parents house after work.
He finally texted me at 10am and asked if I figured out what was wrong with the dryer. I asked if he could call because it was to much to text. He said yes.
He sounded very short on the phone. Fine. I'm over it.
I simply explained the process of what I did with the dryer and its 2 weeks before repair guy can come out when I home to fix. I said I could not expect him to stay awake during the day waiting on someone to get it fixed sooner. I explained they will probably have to order parts and it will be another 2 week wait after that.
He was genuinely bummed for me.
I simply sounded perky and stated I went to the launder-mat yesterday and I will need to go again today. It could be worse. I will just have to do things differently for the next month until its fixed. I didn't let it get me down.
I then ended the conversation. YEAH ME!
Normally I would have asked how his parents are - but I didn't today. I just said I would talk to him later.
Its hard when you have a day like yesterday and he wants to connect followed by extreme distance today. I'm keeping my PMA and moving forward with baby steps.