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[joejoe1]

Gisela,

One on my LL is words of affirmation. With that being said my W, took a big role in raising the kids and she stop being W and start being mommy. I stop being H and started being soldier. I guess what I'm saying here, my W now knows that she has to come out of mommy mode and give me some priority and that takes a determined effort on her part. The kids are still the main focus, but I get to feel some of her love, when she makes me a priority. I need her to ask me how my day has gone and just listen, I need her to just pay attention and be interested in what i'm telling her. It only takes at most 10 mins, that's how I feel love. That's what fills my love cup. Her asking and listening about my day, her coming out of mommy mode and giving me priority, even if it's for just a few mins.

Have you ever tried to 180 the things he complains about?

Can you give a detail explanation of what your 180s look like here?

Onward and foward