I am going to ask you this question again. Why did you not come to the board before you wrote the letter?
"If you choose me" WTF? Is this a contest? Again, I know you are new but you just drew the line in the sand with a lot of $hit I am pretty sure you you are not going to be able to back up. You are already considering wavering on transparency which is the most important boundary with a cheater.
Until she is ready to do whatever it takes to EARN your trust and ANOTHER CHANCE with you IMO you are wasting your time. She is going to test you and these boundaries and if you show weakness you are in for a long painful journey.
