That is temp checking. Of the worst kind. To show to herself she has control.
And believe nothing she says, even about not being attracted to you. You made a D14 with her so it's clearly untrue.
You are working on you aren't you?
Show yourself that you are an attractive man, and what she is saying is bs. It is your confidence in you that makes you sexy.
So the answer is "hey, yes I am worth an R and if you aren't interested in due course my wonderful new R awaits. For I am a man only a fool would leave, and you are very stupid".
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW