Gotcha Cali. Maybe that's why she kept looking at me when she was saying we need to do something. She also brought up Community Property and how our debt is each other's debt. Being in escrow, I am familiar with most of that, but did not know the taxes are too even if you file separate, so thank you!

We both got refunds, his was just much smaller, but it did occur to me that can bite me while disclosing assets! It is what it is. I am getting my ducks in a row and ready to make appt for mediation. I plan on letting him know this weekend when I have to see him.

S birthday is Saturday, so trying to make that my focus until then. I am attending my first divorce group tomorrow night and I am really looking forward to it. I hope it is a good fit for me.

Good night
M


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
-live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-