Meg the problem with these scenarios is that we forget ourselves. Think back to when you were dating. Did you like the guys who threw themselves at you, bought you gifts and did your homework for you, or did you like the guys you had to work for? That were mysterious, that you didn't know if you could get them or not?

For some reason, when we become an LBS we default to "pleasing mode" but you *know* deep down that this never works.

If you want him to want you, you need to be a person of value, you need to rise above. A person of value does not tolerate his crap. A person of value needs effort to be engaged.

Be the prize to be won. Be the prize to be won.

Acc

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015