25years mlc 10 years pass I FILE #9 LAST LAP

[25yearsmlc]

FROM ME

Feb 24, 2018

I am alive, in the process of healing and settling with h. Or VERY soon to be ex h. Our divorce will be finalized soon, especially since HE wants to be declared single asap (not shocked that he's probably wanting to be engaged or married asap, b/c if he doesn't marry OW exit affair, then he might look as if he's blown up a family merely for a place obsession/job?

Oh, wait, he did that a decade ago when he missed our d28's junior/senior year of high school. And then most of our d20's second half of life in home. H does not learn from his errors and I mean that. He repeats them as if they did not damage to others...



SO I hired a PI. Very Jerry Springer of me

and yet, my PI guy tracked h to work (yes WORK, not "retirement" - as if ) and h's name is on the building--- I mean seriously?

AND H advertises presentations on the procedures they offer now and has added credentials and renewed his medical license (but wait, he "retired" and that was why he cut our d20 off of college...right????)

Christ I think literally everything he wrote to d20 in the "cut off tuition" letter was a lie and she must know that by now.

ouch.

and his brazenness....Name on the building!

Then I saw his expenses of him and his OW and HER Daughter and all their travels

while our youngest works 2 jobs and is cut off. I will never understand his choices b/c we do not share the same moral compass.

but then his offer for "global settlement" (as opposed to just spousal support) was upped. I know he will earn a lot more and I know he's hidden money. I could keep fighting for more but I want to live my life and I had a clause put in about whether he's hiding assets and I discover it, they are mine, not just half.

I still have other things to say about spouses who take all the savings and then leave...or file.

As for the settlement, It's not fair or equitable, and he 's a bullying liar with a cruel streak, but it is "enough" for me, and I would like to be done now. I have a life to live. If I'm smart with money (and I will be), I don't care if h wins the lottery. And I'm better off than 90% of the women on the planet, I'll be alright.



More later....

I appreciate you guys a lot.