I did not sleep at all last night, since every time I closed my eyes, I saw them together there doing nasty things. Devastating. If someone has good tips how to come over these visions, I´m glad to receive a hint...
Would you watch a really bad movie over and over again? Of course not. So why do this to yourself? When you start to picture it, picture a big red STOP sign in your mind and turn the channel. Sounds silly but it works.
Exactly what I was going to suggest. I think it's from the book the Happiness Trap?
Originally Posted By: kml
As for the two weeks - you're right, she's trying to buy a little more time with OM. Spend the next two weeks going out with friends and doing fun new things.
I completely agree. She wants a trial period to live with OM, and your response should be to live your own life.
Originally Posted By: GettinT
Thanks for this! Do you remember any reason they found to explain why some women go to "50 shades of gray" directly after sex starved marriage even if they have been the ones keeping it quiet themselves and wanted safety and EC in ML?
From what I recall I don't think they delved too much into that, the point was really that when a rogue wife says she doesn't want to have sex anymore, she means with YOU. She still wants sex, in fact it's probably a rather urgent priority. Often women will "affair down" just to get the sex and attention they're craving.
