Originally Posted By: GettinT
I´m quite sure she wants to buy more time to spend time with him, and find out if they could have something together...
She probably is so thrilled about A, that she wants to keep me as an option if it does not work out with OM.


Yes^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

G,

I was afraid you were go to set a boundary that you couldn't enforce. I wished you would have check with the board first.

Can I have 2 weeks to try this other guy out before I make a decision? WTF? Come on man! No, you either decide to work together on the marriage or I help you pack your $hit and your sex toys and you can go live with OM.

IMO allowing her 2 weeks is very weak behavior!