I did not sleep at all last night, since every time I closed my eyes, I saw them together there doing nasty things. Devastating. If someone has good tips how to come over these visions, I´m glad to receive a hint...
Would you watch a really bad movie over and over again? Of course not. So why do this to yourself? When you start to picture it, picture a big red STOP sign in your mind and turn the channel. Sounds silly but it works.
As for the two weeks - you're right, she's trying to buy a little more time with OM. Spend the next two weeks going out with friends and doing fun new things. All the better if she "happens" to find out you were at a concert last night or out at trivia night at a local bar with some friends. Note: I'm not suggesting you date - don't do that - but it's okay to give her a little taste of what it might be like to wonder about you being out there where other women might hit on you. (Unless of course you had problems with being unfaithful yourself in the marriage,in which case this is not a good idea. )
