Originally Posted By: GettinT
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This was the first time I caught my W lying in 15 years...


Not sure if you saw this blurb I posted to you yesterday:

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It really is. A lot of them will engage in all kinds of nefarious behavior but then act all hurt and disappointed that you would actually think they are engaging in it. It's crazy but often the spouses we thought we knew so well turn into lying cheaters that barely even resemble who we knew. They will look you in the eye and pour out lies and turn it around to make YOU feel guilty for accusing them. It's amazing.


She is not the person you used to know. She has transformed from your loving wife into a lying cheater. This is your new reality sorry to say. Expect a LOT more lying in the future. She will lie about all things great and small. She will lie about stuff that matters and stuff that doesn't.

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LH19, out of curiosity, what is the book you mentioned here (if ok to share)?


That was my quote rather than LH19, the book that is from is the "Married Man Sex Life Primer". We don't talk about it a lot here because it doesn't dovetail with DB so much. It's more of a look into alpha versus beta behavior and how to strike a balance on that in your romantic relationships.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57