BTW, she chose to leave the bedroom. It was after numerous requests for a separation in which it was always assumed that I would move out of the home. Fat chance.
As for humility? I am often confused by this nice behavior. More consideration and respect than I've seen in a decade.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.