W also brought up in mediation about Valentines Day...
I had taken the kids out for supper (is was a normal scheduled day of mine) and they went and watched the food being made rather than sit at the table with me..
I took a picture and posted on FB with the sentence “Should I take offence that my Valentine’s dates would rather watch the food being made rather than sit at the table with me”
W brought this up as unacceptable as son was supposed to be ill, it was half term and he stayed at home rather than go to the daycare program... he would have been at school if it was a school day...
W just can across as bitter and certainly gave me the impression that OM is not what she tries to make out occasionally... I figure if she was with someone else it wouldn’t matter what I did on Valentine’s Day. Also, W blocked me on FB so clearly someone is keeping tabs on me and passing the info on...
W also is struggling to look after the kids and work her job. Especially lately when there has been many kids having the flu and our kids being sick. She is having to take days off and said in mediation how it would have been nice to have a grandma around... I agreed that, yep it would be nice but unfortunately we don’t. (We don’t have any family here in this country.)
I explained to the mediators that I can do homeoffice when emergencies require to which W replied that she cannot.. I agreed with her that, yep she does not have that possibility and can make it challenging...
I do get the sense that reality is really starting to bite, OM was not all she thought or even in it to be an OM but I also believe that W will never admit she screwed up..
