[Vanilla]

Actually OW don't really matter. This particular one may be a Mata Hari type. There was a poster here called Pink whose WH was obsessed with one of those. They are a particularly nasty type causing disruption to feed their egos. Plus a work dynamic with a subordinate can set him up for accusations of sexual harassment. In these circumstances he may lose his job and find it impossible to get a reference. There is no doubt that colleagues at work will know too, an open secret. Employers don't condone this type of stuff as it opens floodgates. Weinstein and all that.....

This is about WH facing the reality of who he is and where he has reached in his life by his own efforts.

He may need to change employers to put this behind him before he gets the push. That's for him.

I am going to state for the record I don't believe in MLC, it isn't in the DSM as a disorder. It appears to be a particular set of entitled behaviours. These behaviours disrespect you and your M.

This DB process is for you to concentrate on you. This is your time to work on you, to set goals for you. To be a friend with WH and perhaps date him.

Blu offers sound advice on this as she walked the talk.

V