After you know what YOU want, have advice on what's feasible then you open dialogue on achieving it.
Cards, close, chest any order.
WW often have the happy ever after scenario in their heads, "I will live in this house with OM happy ever after. Ex H will pay and pay lots happily and everything will be wonderful. I won't have to work and will live in my sunshine scrambled eggs for brains life. We can pretend OM isn't living here too so I can be a single mom for the court"
You may need to record some conversations and start collecting proof of OM especially in a fault state.
Lala Land lovey dovey stuff. When it comes to the wire OM are often not good on their word especially if they have other commitments.
Beware of the "I am afraid of your anger tactic". You have to leave because you are angry?.........
You have stated you want a new R and family life. Be prepared to fight for your family life which can be your home with your children and WW separately off in Lala Land. She can't afford to live separately without your support unless she goes out to work. Life is about to get real for scrambled egg brains with no knickers.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
