Just because WW says something doesn't make it so. She has scrambled eggs for brains at this moment in time. When reality bites it often bites extra hard. So the correct response is "yeah, really!" This tactic is called triangulation and it's highly manipulative.
Do not leave the MBR, it is WW who leaves the MBR. She is the cheater so she goes.
You can stay in the MH with your children. There are many wonderful men here on the board who have sole custody and or joint custody of their children. That's a goal for many terrific dads and they achieve it. Breast feeding a 2 year old is a barrier decision and an attempt to block you from that child in this case. I agree with Sandi on this completely. You have had amazing advice on it, if you S and the child is with you then she may use this as 'poor' me and 'poor' baby. Reality is to share custody then the 2 year old will get weaned.
You are operating without a plan and I think therefore are confused.
Your M as it was is definitely over and if you and WW get it together again then it has to be as new R not recycled M. If new M or R isn't possible what do you want?
So what do you want?
Is it legally feasible?
Consider your option
I want to live in the MH/ I want a new home/ this house to be sold......
I want X type custody of my children........
I want to bring up all my children myself.......
I want to see all my children every day...........
Be aware that whatever choices you make today are vital to your financial and emotional well being for many years to come.
Children come first always, you are a dad with precious loving bundles who have a mother who has scrambled eggs for brains. You are the stable one, you are the sound one. Time to step up for your children. Time to work with what you have.
I think you need to know what you want and find a great L who can help you achieve it. Like most spouse with SAHP then you are in both a strong and a weak position. Being involved with your children from this point is vital if you are to be the father you are going to have to be.
That's reality and it hurts like crazy I know.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
