Yes sandi2 you are correct on all accounts.

Now during a fight a few months back she did break down a bit when I was reminding her of what she had put me through. For the first time, she showed remorse but more so about what pain she had cause instead of for what she had done.

As for her moving out, I hear you, and that is the plan. I will not stop or help or show much response at all.

She has been more nice and respectful than I can remember, for years. Once when I explained the mixed signals, she stopped kisses hello and goodbye. But she is more loving in her actions than I can ever remember.

I will post more often and thank you for your response.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.