WIndy is your husband open to MC? I am not a huge advocate of MC but I do think the one area it can help the most is in communication. If he isn't open to MC what about IC for himself? I am not sure you will ever breakthrough his stonewalling and shutting down on your own.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
