Thanks for the well wishes. I had a British friend in college and she used that saying quite often. I always got a kick out of it!
I'm sure it will come in to focus over time but right now it is still a bit foggy. The good news is I'm not protecting her any more. No more excuses for her because she is doing this to herself. I am, however, still protecting the kids. At least in the sense that they see and feel as little of this as possible. They still are getting too much IMO.
It is all very draining.
M: 25 T:33 Me: 48 W: 49 S24, D21, D18, D15, S8 All living at home while going to school A confirmed: 12-25-17 EA Definite PA Probable