Just to update, Valentine's Day itself went well. She was very appreciative of the rose and card. The next day there was spew though, so reaction may have been delayed.

I'm guilty of snooping today. I find out that she was prescribed Lorazepam and Lexapro. Anyone have experience with these and have thoughts on whether it is a good thing that an MLCer is on these?


M: 42
W: 39
Married: 13 Together: 18
Kids:10,8
BD 1: 2/2013
Reconciled: 9/2013
BD 2: 10/2017
Separation from MH: 12/2017