so here's the trick - you go into each mediation session prepped like it's a business meeting. leave the rest at the door, to the very best of your ability. i realize that this is easier said than done, but psyche yourself up to be in that mindset before every session. will you do it perfectly? no. but going in with that mentality helps. ask Cali - I remember well how he said the same thing.

Remember, there's no marriage; it's a business partnership that is dissolving.

That has to be your mantra.

I'm sorry it's come to this. xoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver