I really got the vibe this am that he just wanted to talk and hang out.

I think his intention with the comment about the coworker crocheting was more to show me he can talk about the things I'm interested in? Of course it came out wrong and triggered jealously in me which I masked as best I could. Still he could tell I was hurt.

So H shut down and went to other room convinced we can't communicate and therefore shouldn't be married.

I was never a jealous wife but since we started having issues it's been a horrible feeling. I've even been jealous of my SD16 because he spends good quality happy time with her. Ugh... I always felt so secure with H before.

I know get it together and move on.