Sarah, I just read this thread by Meg24 and there is some excellent advice. Her sitch has some differences, but the advice is spot on.

Please go to her thread, start at the beginning, and read the advice by Accuray, Anotherstander, and artista. It all applies to you as well!

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2780020&page=1

Blu


“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela