T, thanks for updating us. I was recently wondering about you, since you hadn't posted in a while. It's sounds like you're in a very good place.

Just curious, how does XH hope to get 50/50 now that the D is final?

Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.