Hi Jim the current plan was to split the house 50/50, split the 401 50/50, we would not touch our pensions (they are almost equal in value) and the money set aside for the kids would not be touched.
Depending on the amount of equity we have in the house I was going to propose to her that I give her a specific dollar amount of the equity and I would make the difference by giving her a larger portion of the 401.
This way it would reduce the amount that I need to refi and hopefully put me in a position financially to keep the house.
If it was just me I would sell the house, take my portion of the money and take a vacation . I am struggling with the decision though due to my kids.
. I am struggling with the decision though due to my kids.