I think that you are too focused on what SHE is going to do with it...

My vote would be...

Go to MC, use it as a tool for you...

She knows when it is...

She knows where it is...

She knows how to get there...

No pressure, no pursuing, no guilt trips...

If she shows ?

Then great..

If not ??

Then maybe have that talk that we discussed on your last thread...