The quicker that you communicate to her through actions that you love and value yourself are not gonna put up with this disrespectful BS, the quicker you will have a resolution in your situation. If not, this most likely will go on for a very long time!
^^^This^^^ Sandi says much the same thing here a lot. WAS's just love to walk all over the LBS while throwing them crumbs now and then to keep them on as Plan B. Your attitude needs to be "I am Plan A, and not necessarily for you, W." She has to learn to miss you.
