BUT, I don´t know what that stand would be. One way would be that I´m not going to the MC if you do not stop, but it feels that it could work, and we got the best therapist in our country who is usually very busy. Another thing could be financial, I could stop paying rent of "nesting" apartment and ask for her to find her own. OR, I could explain that I will go totally dark except the MC sessions and things that concern the kids and finance.
GT,
The only suggested boundary below that would be enforceable is the financial boundary. The other options are quite frankly childish threats that will make you look weak.
I agree with AS in that you are separated and there is nothing you can do about the A she is in at the moment other then deciding if this is a deal breaker for you. If it is file for D. If it is not the only thing you can do is create a great life for your kids and yourself and maybe your W will want to be a part of it.
Look man, this $hit is not easy and when you are standing for the M and she is running around like girls gone wild it is going to be a rough painful road.
The quicker that you communicate to her through actions that you love and value yourself are not gonna put up with this disrespectful BS, the quicker you will have a resolution in your situation. If not, this most likely will go on for a very long time!
