M my love he bailed and essentially fired you as his wife, so ... his mommy is his problem. I beg you, do NOT bring her into your home. You will never get rid of her and your life will be miserable. Do not let anyone take advantage of your kind nature.
Congrats on the tax situation. Yes, this past year was our first separate and I got a bit of a refund while he owed. I share your relief.
You've done so much good work. I know you've still got to get through this next phase, but I feel you will do it with your usual style and grace. I'm not surprised that your son is in alignment with you.
Yes, it's up to you, the next steps. And M - that's ok. Figure out what you want and then take steps to make that happen. Divorce group is a good idea. I just heard of one in the next town and may try it.
Anyway, thanks for stopping by my thread. Much love my dear xoxoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
