I silently follow along with you. I am sorry that things have come to this. You sound (read) so strong. Others are reading and learn so much from you. You have done everything possible to fight for your M.
I think this is a huge loss for your H, and I imagine some day he will realize it. I believe you know your worth and that staying put is settling for less. You have already done that, and it doesn't work for you. We understand, and we support you fully! I hope the D process is as smooth as it can be. Please keep us updated.
Best, Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela